So this morning I rush out as usual. Emma had a hard time getting up for some reason and we’re all a bit under the weather. I almost considered just staying here and skipping preschool. We somehow all made it. I had a sore throat yesterday but I feel much better today. It was freezing cold here and all it makes me want to do is just lounge around and drink lots of hot coffee. Guess what I’m doing right now. Ha ha!
At the gym I walked the track with this girl Belinda I know. I realized she is definitely a potential friend! I like her a lot. She used to work at the nursery at this gym but recently quit because she said they called her in constantly and she never got to go workout. I don’t blame her a bit. Last place I would want to work is in childcare. Too much like reality.
We walked and chatted for over an hour. She walks really fast, too and likes to work out with the weights so we discussed meeting there tomorrow to do that together. Yay! She’s got three kids ages 7, 5 and 3 and they all go to school. I think her youngest goes to preschool five mornings a week.
When I got to the gym, I saw Mr. Fabulous at the front desk and he was carrying on like he always does saying my last name. I told him I was going to have Cate call him Mr. HisLastName and we took off to the nursery. When I passed back by him, he called me over there and said he had to tell me something. Ha, he likes me I think. Not sure why but I am getting a vibe that he is friendly towards me, too. So then he says I can’t call him that because he’s not old and married with kids. Trying to pick on me I think but I just stared at him blankly. Then he started up again (we had a convo about this last week) about how you can’t depend on a man and I should go back to school so I can fend for myself in case my husband ever leaves me.
This got us talking about his dad and how he cheated on his mom and left her and she had to struggle. I told him I’m not being cocky but I’d be seriously shocked if my husband were cheating on me. He just doesn’t strike me as the type. He’s very shy and not at all flirtatious. So Mr. Fab said well what if someone goes after *him* then what? Hmm. . . I guess he’s got a point.
I do think that I should have gone to college and it would be nice to have something to fall back on other than boring office work type jobs. I might go to school next fall if I can find the funds. I’m thinking I’ll start small with two classes. Not sure what I’d want to be but I have been tossing this idea around for awhile. I truly enjoy learning new things and would welcome the challenge. Now, finding the funds for that is what poses an issue. Ugh.
Ok, so quick HASAY update, I’m stuck at the same weight. I really haven’t been tracking my food at all but I do drink a lot of water, eat veggies and fresh fruits, take my vitamins and get a lot of exercise almost daily. Somedays I feel fat and gross (don’t we all?) but then other times I look at myself and think fuck the damn scale, there’s nothing wrong with me. I’m just going to keep doing what I’m doing and trying to avoid the temptation to whip up yummy baked goods. 
Edited:
I should have clarified. Mr. Fabulous is not Dog Catcher dude formerly Hot Cop. He’s the gay guy that is an instructor there and he also works the front desk. He’s very cute but I don’t think he’s flirting with me as we’ve had some discussions about his persuasion and I’m afraid I’m just not his type. I like him though. He cracks me up. When I said friendly I meant that. I don’t sense any agenda on his part.
Mmmmm, yummy baked good
I’m so weak.
I totally agree with you on that last part, some days I view myself in a different light. I feel fat one day and sexy the next.
I totally think you should go to school. It has helped me feel better about myself in a round about way. And gives me a confident feeling…good luck!
Mr. Fabulous wants you bad! He is trying to make the cheating thing happen so he can be there to pick up the pieces…..
Hey, I think going back to school is a great idea. And I agree, it is super expensive…
Fill out financial aid forms and check with local community groups that give out scholarships…you’d be surprised at what is out there.
As for the plateau…it really is normal and you have the right attitude, things will come around. And remember you are also building muscle which weighs more.
If you aren’t thinking the intensity is where it needs to be you can easily up that anytime you like.
Sounds like things are going well and oh YEAH Mr. Fabulous is putting the moves on you. Heh. Enjoy the harmless flirtation. Though some might argue flirtation is not harmless…shrug…not sure what I would say to that.
xo~ hope
haaaaaaaaa….got your email…heehee…well it did sound like he was hitting on you…but since he plays for the other team it does sound like he likes you or he wouldnt’ take the time to talk about stuff like that with you…don’t be so surprised about thata mama…you are very likable!! xo~hope
Lemme tell you, *a lot* of gay men flirt with women — it’s just fun, and who doesn’t like to feel the compliment?
A little odd on the post about the IM. I can tell you that I am horrible about keeping in touch with people unless it’s by email. I love to hear from them, but I so rarely just pick up the phone anymore. I guess my guilt is shining through
OK, back to work for me … new post tonight … and good for you on all the walking!
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I’m glad you found a new friend to workout with. I need someone to kick my ass into gear. Mr. Fabulous seems hilarious.
You’re doing great with HASAY… the weight will come off and it sounds like you’re kicking some gym ass. Keep it up.
YAY! A work out buddy! With youngins! Y’all hang out! Oh, and Mr. Fab? They are totally fun friends to have around. And, they won’t lie when it comes to fashion — or anything else.
Side Note:
[Um, did FlyFox guy miss the whole "Mr. FAB" concept? Hmmmm. FFox? Mr. Fab is not after her. He wants to be her "Gal Pal."]
Though, if Mr. Fab wasn’t a Gal Pal? He’d so totally be into you. Cuz’ you are awesome. And, all HAWT and everything!
Happy Monday and Tuesday (as it’s almost here).
– FW
Yeah definately no agenda with Mr. Fabulous!
please don’t stress over the plateau. You’re doing awesome!
I finally measured myself this morning and compared it to my measurements in June. I won’t post my results in your comments. I’m sure you can find them if you’re at all interested.
I’m envious that you can run 10 minutes on a treadmill. I don’t think I could run 10 minutes, even with all the marathon training I’ve been doing for all these months. But, I do ratio training (run/walk), so maybe I could actually run 10 minutes if I tried.
You’re doing great! Keep it up! You inspire me.